Where to Meet Shemales

where to meet shemalesWhere to meet shemales is the most frequently asked question among admirers. Some guys claim to have no luck what-so-ever but it really isn’t as bad as they say it is. You just have to know what you’re doing and how to speak to them. Either way, we’re going to help you change that. If you haven’t already done so, I highly recommend that you read my article “where to meet shemales.” I have covered everything you need to know in-depth so let’s chat a little more about how to meet her, how to approach her and how to make a great first impression.

For real, I’ve seen some of the methods used here and it’s not pretty ya’ll. They come off as too forward or too vulgar at first meet. You wouldn’t believe some of the things I’ve seen. Do you want to scare her off or would you rather make the first impression so you have a chance to meet her, chat and possibly score a date? That’s really what your goal should be; meet a nice shemale looking for the same things as you, take her on a romantic date and see where things go. Don’t decide that she owes you sex just because she went on the date either. Sex has nothing to do with it.

Where Do You Meet Shemales?

Let’s recap some of the fastest ways to meet shemales both online and in person. Meeting shemales online is perhaps the fastest way. Even if you pay a site membership fee, it’s going to be a lot cheaper than hanging out at the bars and nightclubs. Anyway, you can meet shemales in online chat rooms, trans sites, social media sites, and shemale dating sites. Until recently classified ads such as Backpage.com were a great way to meet local shemales. With the proliferation of human trafficking that is no longer a good option. Many of the escort sites have been shut down and law enforcement is actively running sting operations. Regardless, the internet is a goldmine for meeting shemales that are nearby and interesting to you.

You can also go out on the town. This is much easier if you live in or near a large or mid-sized city that has an active LGBT community. Many gay bars welcome shemales. Some cities will have bars or nightclubs that cater specifically to the trans community. These are great places to meet shemales. You might also want to do a Google search for transgender social clubs in your area. Many will have parties and social get-togethers you might be able to attend. If there are transgender support groups or clubs in your area, a little research may reveal the places and activities where you may be able to run into them.

What About Rejection?

Short answer. Don’t take it personally. You just didn’t click. Maybe she is insecure and not ready for dating. Perhaps she has a boyfriend already. It’s possible that she’s a heterosexual crossdresser who isn’t ready for the attention of a man. It could be any number of things so don’t read too much into it. Her loss anyway, right guys. Move on and try to learn from the experience. Did you feel awkward at any point? Did you feel you could have said anything better? Rejection isn’t fun. I’ve never really had a really negative rejection. I like to think it’s because I keep things light-hearted and fun during that initial interaction.